TASK:

To get out of love addiction is more about transforming deleterious decorations and expectations.

Love enthusiasts who overwhelm their illustrations of addictive loving are profoundly different in terms of their thinking and management before recovery.

In my experience (personally and professionally) love practitioners who get out of love addiction do salvage have taken certain impressions to do so.

Love addicts who accompany these steps will get well. The steps are simple, but not cautiously. They are all equally important:

1) Get acknowledged help (w/ a therapist who conjectures love obsession or from a Love Addiction Coaching Expert).

2) Produce your own replacement as the first priority in your life.

3) Find a maintenance group of peers who understand love addiction (join a 12-step recovery group-they are free).

4) Develop your spiritual side (this can help to replace your “higher power” of who your ex-partner has been).

5) Learn to stop managing and controlling others.

6) Learn not to become defrauded on drama and power games.

7) Develop an understanding of healthy-strong boundaries and practice them daily.

8) Produce an understanding of what healthy self-esteem is all about (has nothing to do with external validation- it’s internal, inherent worth)

9) Boldly face your core issues and shortcomings (I clearly explain the core issues of love addicts in my Book, The LOVE ADDICT in Love Addiction.

10) Stay persistent and patient in your growth and well-being development.

11) Become "selfish" in your restoration (you need to learn that healthy selfishness is appropriate; especially at this time).

12) Share with others what you have encountered furthermore what you have learned.

13) Monitor others who have successfully overcome love addiction; and/or other types of addictions as well.

14) When you are ready to date again, or ready to find the right partner who can meet your needs— make it a goal to stay away from love avoidant or narcissists (these are two types you will never have a satisfying relationship with, for they will not meet your needs for intimate connection).

học tốt!!!!

Love is one of the noble qualities of not only each individual but also the whole of humanity. For young people, who are entering the threshold of life, need to cultivate wisdom, but definitely cannot forget the most basic value when being human, which is to appreciate the value of love. Love is the emotions emanating from the bottom of the soul expressing sharing, understanding, and empathy for fellow human beings. If you do not know how to love unhappy life scenes; if they do not know how to appreciate people with noble qualities and feelings and do not know how to rigorously train and cultivate their dignity; If you don't know how to let your heart rise to your loving feelings, that's someone who has a heart that is "crippled" emotionally or in other words, emotionless. From time immemorial, the relationship between mother and child, fatherhood is always established by love and therefore it becomes the most sacred sentiments of mankind. Because of that, that love has entered literary life and it has become the most humane poem and story. The poem "Letter to Mother" by Esenin - a Russian poet has touched so many people's hearts. The story of Chu Dong Tu in the treasure of Vietnamese folklore reminds us of the heart of Chu Cu Van - the father who loved him dearly. And there are many other love stories that have brightened up the value of human love and life. Every summer, students with blue shirts of faith and hope who have traveled everywhere to help disadvantaged people across this land have become a bright and beautiful symbol of love, knowing how to live for love. The story that Nguyen Huu An shared his "time cake" to take care of patients is a beautiful image that young people need to learn. Besides the young people who know how to cultivate, know how to treat people with love, there are still a few who are living indifferent, cold, insensitive to their surroundings. That selfish lifestyle is a phenomenon to be condemned because it goes against the tradition of respect and dignity of his father. Today, live in society. The more intelligent, the more love must be, more advanced. That's what young people need to be aware of and realize their responsibilities in life. Youth is the subject that has to bear the most responsibility for themselves, their families, and society. Therefore, among the many things to be learned in the treasure of human knowledge, it is necessary to correctly perceive love as the pinnacle of human civilization. Let's live to share.

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