I disagree that "men not women should be the breadwinner of the family" for three main reasons. First of all, women should be independent as well. They need to have their own money for they cannot depend on their husband's budget for personal problems like clothes, or skincare. Furthermore, they should be ready to face the challenges in case they cannot rely on their spouse for financial support. Secondly, depending on each family's condition, women may need to work in order to help provide for their family. Moreover, they can even make much more than their partner, thus turning them into the breadwinner. Having said that, some women actually want to go to work, experience something exciting that they have never experienced at home. Thirdly, in today's world, more women are educated and they need to put their knowledge to good use, not to use it wastefully at home. They need to have an identity, a role, a voice in society. Most females don't realise how smart they are until they go out to the real world and make a huge contribution to the world. All things considered, I think women have as much capability as men to share the main financial responsibilities.
