First impressions are very important to your every day life. They are the basis of how relationships start and how you are seen by other people. People, based on first impressions, form opinions. The opinions could begin many things and lead towards success or these opinions could be ones that are misleading and have a negative impact on how people relate to you. So first, when introduced, say their name aloud. For example, “Hi, Lan. I’m Anh. It’s great to finally meet you after hearing so many wonderful things about your work in the field.” Second, when you’re speaking to someone, it’s important to make eye contact to show that you’re actively listening to what they’re saying and understanding. If your eyes are darting around the room, it can appear as if you’re nervous or uninterested. Morever, you have to speak clearly. When it’s your turn to speak, you want to ensure that you’re speaking clearly and not mumbling. A great way to tell if you’re doing so is if others are repeatedly asking you to speak up or repeat yourself. While speaking, it’s important to vary your speech patterns to avoid dull or monotonous tones which can become very boring. Last but not least, Never underestimate the power of your smile! A smile can turn a bad situation upside down in an instant so always keep it in your back pocket. It’s your best and most effective tool in any social situation.
