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Conflicts between parents and teens are nothing new. The reasons for problems between teenagers and their parents vary greatly since each situation is different. However, there are a few common areas where teens and parents find the most conflict.
The first reason is asserting independence. Teens are striving to find independence anyway they can. From fashion to activities, teens want to control their lives. To solve this one, parents should keep the balance between letting their child make choices by talking with teens and try to understand why they choose the music, cloths or activities they do. The second reason is arguing. Going along with asserting their independence, teens are ready to prove their point. Whether they are told they can't go out today or they need to do their homework, adolescents are ready to argue. There is a solution for this. Rather than arguing, it is important to listen to teens. In a calm voice, try to understand the point that teens are trying to make and work to compromise rather than argue. The last one is lacking of communication. Many times, it feels like parents and teens are on two different planets or speaking two different languages. Teens don't feel that parents listen to them or understand their feelings. Hence, rather than blasting questions at them, make general conversation and listen to what they have to say. It is also important to validate their feelings. Rather than just saying, "no" listen to why they broke their curfew or want to attend that party.
Not every problem will be the same or need the same tactic. However, I strongly believe that some general tips mentioned above can help parents, as well as teens, resolve these problems or conflicts.
